Past Lives Aren’t About Who You Were... They’re About the Soul Wounds Shaping Your Worth Today
- Jenny Loccisano
- 4 days ago
- 6 min read
Updated: 1 day ago

The Glamorous Illusion of Past Lives
Let’s be honest - when most people hear “Past Life Reading,” their imagination goes straight to something like:
“I was a High Priestess in Atlantis.”“I was a Viking warrior.”“I was Cleopatra’s handmaiden.”
And who knows, maybe you were. (Though if you were Cleopatra’s handmaiden, we should probably talk.)
But here’s the truth, past life work isn’t about the title you held - it’s about the wounds you carried.
What truly matters isn’t who you were… it’s what your soul experienced, what it contracted to learn, and what it may still be carrying into this lifetime.
Past Lives Are Not Just Stories - They’re Soul Contracts
When I read past lives psychically - through seeing, feeling, and inner knowing - I don’t go looking for entertainment or drama.
What comes through is always what’s relevant for the client’s healing today.
Because past lives aren’t separate from us. They’re part of the soul’s continuum - and if something from a past incarnation hasn’t been fully processed, it doesn’t just disappear. It lingers as emotional residue, energetic patterning, or subconscious belief systems.

Past life experiences can directly affect how we:
See ourselves
Make decisions
Show up in relationships
Express our purpose
Believe (or disbelieve) in our worth
These influences often operate beneath the surface - not as memories we can consciously recall, but as patterns we unknowingly live out
Soul Memory Sounds Like: “Why Do I Still Struggle with This?”
If you’ve ever said:
“I’ve done so much healing, but I still don’t feel worthy".
“I’m terrified to speak up, even though I know it’s safe now.”
“I always sabotage things right when they start going well…”
Then you might be feeling the echo of a past life wound - not a flaw in your mindset or your healing, but a deeper energetic thread that hasn’t yet been seen.
The soul remembers. Even when the mind doesn’t.
How Past Life Wounds Impact Self-Worth
So many of the blocks we carry around self-worth didn’t originate in this lifetime. They were formed in other timelines, under very different circumstances - but they were never cleared. Just carried forward.
Here are some of the most common themes seen in past life sessions related to self-worth:

1. Persecution for Gifts. In many lifetimes, spiritual gifts were dangerous. People were ridiculed, exiled, imprisoned, or even executed for being healers, seers, or truth-tellers. These memories often cause:
Fear of visibility
Fear of speaking your truth
Feeling unsafe when using your intuitive gifts
2. Vows of Poverty or Self-Sacrifice who lived in monastic or servitude roles may have made vows - of silence, poverty, and obedience.
These can manifest as:
Guilt around receiving or charging money
Over-giving in relationships or business
Belief that struggle = virtue
3. Shame, Blame, or Failure Some souls experienced unjust punishment or public failure. Others hold guilt over harm they believe they caused.
This can show up as:
Deep fear of being “found out”
Imposter syndrome
Reluctance to lead or take responsibility
4. Abandonment or Exile - Repeated lives of being cast out, left behind, or losing loved ones can create:
Trust issues
Hyper-independence
Constant need for approval or reassurance
And in many cases, these past life experiences created beliefs like:
“I must stay small to stay safe.”
“I’m not meant to be seen.”
“I can’t be powerful and loved at the same time.”
A Real-Life Example: Sophie’s Soul Story
Let me share an example from a past client - we’ll call her Sophie.
Sophie came to me saying, “I’ve done years of healing. I understand where my trauma came from in this life. But something still feels blocked.”
She had a loving heart, a spiritual business, and had invested deeply in her own personal growth. But beneath it all was a feeling of failure - like she was destined to mess it all up.
When I tuned in psychically, I saw a dim, stone-walled room and the presence of sorrow and guilt surrounding her. Sophie appeared as a midwife or healer in a 1600s village. A child had died under her care. It wasn’t her fault - but the community blamed her. She was exiled.
Shamed. Left to die alone.
As I described the scene, tears welled in her eyes - not from sadness, but relief.
“It finally makes sense,” she whispered.

That past life had imprinted her with a fear of being responsible. Of being wrong. Of trusting her own inner authority.
Once we acknowledged the story and cleared the soul contract, Sophie noticed subtle but powerful shifts. She began showing up in her business with more ease. She trusted herself again. Not because of hype or mindset - but because the fear was no longer alive in her body.
That’s the power of remembering.
How I Work with Past Lives
I don’t use hypnosis - I work psychically, in partnership with your Higher Self and spirit team.
This is what usually happens in a session:
I feel into the emotional or physical energy that’s presenting
I begin to see imagery - sometimes symbolic, sometimes detailed scenes
I receive knowledge about the belief or contract that’s still playing out
I guide you through clearing, emotional release, and soul-level integration
It’s never about “reliving trauma.” It’s about witnessing what your soul is ready to release - with safety, compassion, and clarity.
And sometimes, there’s even humour. One client discovered their current fear of responsibility traced back to being a very frazzled medieval cartographer - constantly lost, constantly blamed. We laughed through the session… and yet the release was real.
Signs You May Be Carrying Past Life Blocks
If you’re wondering whether past life healing might be helpful, here are some signs:
You feel blocked in areas of life that shouldn’t be this hard
You fear being visible, even though it’s “safe” now
You keep attracting the same lessons or relationships
You feel like you’re carrying guilt that doesn’t belong to this life
You’re drawn to certain eras, places, or archetypes - without explanation
Soul Inquiry: Reflective Questions
If you're curious, try journaling with these prompts. Let your intuition lead.
What fear or pattern feels like it doesn’t belong to this lifetime?
Where do I feel unsafe, even when there’s no clear threat?
What might my soul be trying to teach me through this recurring experience?
If I made a vow in another life - what might it be? Is it time to release it?
You don’t need to know the full story. Just allow space for a deeper memory to rise.
Why Soul Memory Work Matters
So many self-worth practices focus on reprogramming the mind. And while that’s powerful, sometimes it’s not enough.
Because the wound didn’t start in the mind.It started in the soul.
When we heal at the soul level, we don’t just shift thoughts - we shift identity.
This allows you to:
Reclaim your power
Trust your gifts
Feel safe to be seen
Open to abundance
Make peace with your path
It doesn’t have to take years. Sometimes, one remembered moment changes everything.
The Soul’s Worth Was Never Lost - Only Forgotten
You are not lost or flawed. You’ve simply been carrying stories that were never yours to begin with. You are remembering who you truly are. And yes - past lives might seem like a strange place to look for self-worth.

But once you feel the truth of who you were - and who you no longer need to be - you unlock the next chapter of your healing.
You stop asking, “What’s wrong with me?” And you start asking, “What part of me is ready to come home?”
“Every lifetime I’ve lived has led me home to this moment.” - Jenny Loccisano
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