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The Power of Choosing Love Over Fear: A Spiritual Perspective

Updated: Aug 6

At Psychic Mediumship College, we teach that every decision you make, emotionally or energetically, begins with a choice between two frequencies: love or fear. This is not just philosophy. It is foundational to your spiritual growth and intuitive development.


Let’s explore what that really means and how it can transform your connection with yourself, others, and Spirit.


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The Energetics of Love Versus Fear


From a spiritual perspective, everything is energy. Emotions, thoughts, and beliefs all carry a vibrational frequency. Two of the most powerful frequencies we interact with daily are:


Fear is a low-frequency state. It contracts your energy, limits perception, and disrupts spiritual flow.


Love is a high-frequency state. It expands your energy, invites clarity, and strengthens your connection to your soul and the Divine.


When you are in fear, your nervous system becomes overactive. Your brain scans for threats. Your aura tightens in self-protection.


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When you are in a state of love, not romantic love, but soul-level, universal love, your body relaxes. You feel safe. Your energy field expands, and you naturally become more receptive to intuitive insight and spiritual messages.


How Fear Blocks Intuition


Fear is a survival tool. It protects, but it also distorts. Here’s how fear commonly affects intuitive development:


Fear Pattern

Impact on Intuition

Overthinking

Crowds out inner knowing with mental noise

Doubt

Labels intuition as imagination

Avoidance

Ignores uncomfortable spiritual nudges

Need for Control

Blocks spontaneous signs and synchronicities

Harsh Self-Judgment

Lowers vibration and disconnects intuitive clarity


Spirit never stops speaking to you. But when you are in fear, you stop hearing.


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What Happens When You Choose Love Instead


When you shift into the frequency of love, everything begins to change. Especially your intuitive awareness and spiritual connection.


Nervous System Regulation Love calms the nervous system and helps you move into a relaxed, intuitive state of awareness.


Energetic Expansion Your aura opens. Your energy feels lighter. You become a magnet for spiritual support and clarity.


Stronger Vibration, Clearer Signal Spirit communicates through vibration. When your frequency rises, so does the accuracy of your psychic connection.


Emotional Empowerment Love holds space for your pain. It allows healing and transformation to take place without judgment.


Real-Life Choices: Fear Versus Love


Here are examples of how fear and love speak differently in everyday life:

When Fear Speaks

When Love Responds

"They will judge me if I speak my truth."

"My truth matters, even if it makes others uncomfortable."

"What if I fail?"

"Even if I fail, I grow. I trust myself to rise again."

"I am not ready. I need to know more first."

"I trust that I am exactly where I need to be right now."

"I will wait until everything is perfect."

"Aligned action matters more than perfection."

Every time you choose love, no matter how small the moment, you create space for spiritual alignment.


A Daily Practice to Shift from Fear to Love

Here is a simple yet powerful tool we teach to students and clients:


Love Over Fear Reset


Step 1: Pause and Notice Tune in to your body. Are you holding tension? Feeling anxious or closed?


Step 2: Name the Fear Speak it aloud or write it down. Naming the fear reduces its power over you.


Step 3: Ask Yourself What would love say or do right now?


Step 4: Take Action Even a small loving action can shift your entire energy field.

The more you practice this, the easier and faster you recalibrate.


Why This Matters on a Spiritual Level


Choosing love over fear is more than a mindset shift. It is a deep act of soul alignment.

This is how you:


  • Strengthen intuitive clarity

  • Open yourself to spiritual guidance

  • Heal emotional patterns

  • Remember your purpose

  • Lead from integrity, even in uncertain times


You cannot receive divine wisdom while wrapped in self-judgment. You cannot expand your spiritual gifts while shrinking in fear. Choosing love creates space for healing, growth, and spiritual embodiment.


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Final Words from Spirit


You are not behind. You are not broken. You are simply remembering who you are.

Each time you choose love, even in silence or imperfection, you return to the truth of your soul.


So today, make the choice. Choose clarity. Choose truth. Choose love.


And watch your world begin to shift.



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